Bondage is the physical restriction of the movements of one of the two during sex, done to demonstrate power over the other, including disciplining him. In this case, whoever is in charge, in addition to restricting the partner or partner physically, will also use control words and “training” with the partner.

1. Kiss of the subject and classic Oral

BDSM Practices: Oral Sex Positions Can Be Good Ways to Include Bondage and Discipline in Sex

Oral sex positions are ideal for starting bondage and discipline. In the case of the subject’s Kiss, in which the man lies down and the woman is placed over his head, on her knees, for the oral performance, the woman can cuff her partner’s hands and, with the use of a choker or even with just your hands, hang him lightly during the act.

In Classic Oral, in which the man stands while the woman kneels to perform the oral on him, she can also have her hands cuffed behind her back – there are handcuffs that come with a choker. The man can also pull the partner’s hair and, if both like to “gag”, that is, to choke the other, the man can even insert his penis with more force in the partner’s mouth to provoke this effect – with care. Nipple clamps can also be used.

During the act, whoever is receiving the oral can use command words, commanding the other, to incorporate the “discipline” part.

2. Girl and Bandit

In this position, the woman lies down so that the man is on top of her. He remains on his knees and she uses her legs to wrap herself around his hips, lifting her hips to allow penetration. Meanwhile, he locks his partner’s arms to the bed, limiting her movement.

For those who are just starting to experiment, this alone may be enough to start getting in touch with BDSM practices. The man can use his weight to hold his partner’s body on the bed, actually preventing her from moving, without using any accessory, and talking nasty things, implementing the “discipline” part of the act.

 3.The dominator

Now she’s the boss! The man lies on his back and the woman sits on his lap, allowing penetration, keeping her knees bent and her feet flat on the bed beside his torso.

The woman may try to tie her partner’s arms to the head of the bed and blindfold him before starting the position, preventing him from knowing what she is going to do. To go even further, gags, nipple clamps and collars can also be incorporated.

» Positions for Domination and Submission:

Domination and submission are another aspect of the power shift that takes place during BDSM practices. In them, the man or woman feels pleasure in dominating the other, while the other feels pleasure in being submissive. It is possible to feel pleasure in both and both take turns between the position of dominator and submissive

In these two positions, the man is on his knees on the bed and the woman lies on her back in front of him. In Indra’s Wife, he lifts his partner’s hips to penetrate her, keeping her body erect while she rests her feet on his chest. In Commando on his knees, he leans his body slightly forward, also raising her hips for penetration, and holds her feet – together.

In both cases, who dominates is the man. In addition to controlling the pace and depth of penetration, he can command his partner in a more direct and assertive way, with control words, holding her body tightly, being more intense during the act. To be submissive, a woman must obey her partner in everything at that time.

2. Taming the stallion

Here the domination/submission relationship is inverted. The woman puts herself on top of the man, who is lying on his back, as if he were going to sit on his lap, but bends his body forward to hold his face.

In addition to controlling movement, women can choose to use accessories to reinforce their dominator position – such as handcuffs, collars and gags, which limit the man’s physical movement, leaving him totally submissive in that situation.

» Positions for Sadism and Masochism:

For many people, sadomasochism is the most intense part of BDSM practices and, therefore, they are afraid to explore this side. In it, one of the couple takes pleasure in feeling pain and the other in causing it. It may sound extreme, but what most people don’t know is that they have probably already experienced some sadomasochistic practice, for example, patting their butt, pulling their hair, biting, scratching and so on.

But, of course, the act can also get more intense and accessories such as whips and paddles can be used.

1. Domination of fourDomination on all fours is one of the easiest poses to start experimenting with with sadomasochism, especially if it’s the man who likes to cause pain and the woman who receives it (this also involves the issue of dominance and submission, he might want to be the dominator and she the submissive).

The woman gets on all fours and he comes from behind, on his knees, or stands on the edge of the bed, to enter her from behind. In addition to the classic butt pats and hair pulling, which can be stronger, he can try scratching his partner’s back and, who knows, experiment with a whip, which he can apply, with more or less force, to her bottom. She can also use nipple clamps to feel pain in a different area.

2. At the feet of the queen

In this pose, the woman is the one who will cause pain. In it, the man lies on his back and bends his knees, with his feet flat on the bed. She sits on top of her partner, facing him, straddling his hips for penetration to occur. She also bends her knees and rests her feet on his chest.

To incorporate sadomasochism, a woman can use her feet to hang her partner, carefully, always remembering the safe word. She could also slap his face and scratch him. In this case, the use of the paddle can be interesting. The couple can think of some game of punishment and reward in which the woman uses the paddle to punish her partner.

Accessories for BDSM Practices

We emphasize that BDSM practices do not only happen with the use of accessories and toys, and that these are just a way to complement the act, helping to build the fantasy. For those who want to explore with toys, it is important, first of all, to sanitize them correctly for use : with water and neutral soap, without submerging them in water.

If you want to venture out with toys, in addition to the classic erotic accessories, which are also very welcome during the act – vibrators, butt plugs, among others -, get to know some of the main items of BDSM practices:

Chokers and collars: chokers that can be adjusted to more or less tighten the wearer’s neck. Some are meant to serve as a collar;

Handcuffs: among the best known accessories in the BDSM universe, they are used both on the ankles and on the wrists to carry out various fantasies;

Sales: Sales are another familiar toy. Masks that limit visibility are also used;

Costumes: costumes, like those of dominatrix leather, are also well known, but they are not mandatory nor are they used by all followers of BDSM practices, being just one more way to make the fetish even more interesting;

Gag Gags: Gag gags are those that keep the wearer’s mouth open. They can be accompanied by collars, handcuffs and even nipple clamps;

Nipple clamps: Nipple clamps are part of sadomasochistic practices, and can be used by both men and women;

Whips and paddles: Of the more “aggressive” toys, these are used to really cause pain. It is mainly thinking about their use that it is important to have safe words.

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